Another month gone already

Another month of the year gone so quickly, but the weather has been good and a lot of jobs in the garden have been ticked off, so that's good.  I over-seeded the top lawn last week, I haven't seen many birds stealing the seeds so fingers crossed we should see signs of growth in the next couple weeks.  I also went ahead and purchased two small raised beds for the top of the garden, we have yet to fill them, but that's ok I'm not ready to plant anything out just yet.

The one last big job outside is to jet wash the path and patio, that is on tomorrow list of things to do.

We still have daffs out and for once they haven't been battered by rain or snow.

The grass just before over-seeding, there should be fewer bald patches in a couple weeks

Yesterday was Mothers Day here in the UK, we went out for lunch with Joanne and the kids, Stevie and Jenny popped round later in the afternoon.  They all spoilt me with lovely cards, flowers and gifts, Joanne also got me a seat I can use for gardening and planting, that will save my poor knees 😂, (not in the photo as it wasn't assembled)

As you know Joanne and Gavin are no longer together but he usually makes sure Bonnie and Jacob have something to give Joanne for Mothers Day but for some reason he didn't offer to take them to buy her anything this time so me and Mark took them out on Saturday to get flowers and choose a gift, they also made her cupcakes while they were here.

They wrapped everything up and when I took them home hid everything in Bonnies wardrobe, they were so excited to give her the things they'd bought, Joanne said they went and woke her up at 6am 😆

I've been for my second physio appointment this morning, I think the exercises are slowly working and he was happy that I could now do a more difficult version of one of them.  I'm still in pain most days, some days are worse than others but I'm following the exercise plan so hopefully one day everything will settle down.

Mark had the results of his prostate biopsy last week, it was benign, so nothing nasty to worry about, which was a relief.  He has another appointment in June to assess him again to see what they can offer him in the way of help as his prostate is enlarged and that's what's causing him to have frequent bathroom visits.  The letter also listed some of the treatment options, tablets are the easiest treatment, the operation for more troublesome cases doesn't sound very nice and requires time in hospital and at least four weeks at home.  Needles to say he is hoping that he will be able to have the tablets option.

I've been stitching lots this past week and made great progress on my Hoot in a Boot which I'll share next time.  

Wishing you all a wonderful April

-X-

Weekend stitching retreat

 I've had the most wonderful weekend away, it was just what I needed, stitching with friends, chatting and laughing and eating tasty food.  I mentioned before that since Christmas I haven't been stitching but I enjoyed sorting out and kitting up a new start to take with me and certainly made up for my few months stitching drought while I was away.

I decided to start my weekend on the Thursday, I spent the day in Wells and had booked a Premier Inn for the night so that on the Friday morning it was just a short drive to our hotel for the retreat.

I've visited Wells a few times, It's not a big place but has City status because of it's Cathedral, not many shops but It's nice for a wander round.  I had thought of looking around the Cathedral this time but I felt the £14 entrance fee was a little expensive plus I'd only got an hour left on my parking ticket so It wasn't really worth it, but an excuse for a visit another time.

Such an impressive building, and as you can see it was blue sky all the way on Thursday.

Wells is also home to one of the oldest residential streets left in Europe, Vicars Close.  It was built in the 14th century to house the Vicars Choral. Today it is still home to the vicars choral for the cathedral the organist and vergers.

Those chimneys are impressive arn't they

It was a thirty minute drive from the hotel in Wells to our retreat hotel so I was able to arrive nice and early on Friday to start my stitching weekend.

Our stitching room was upstairs and was perfect, big enough so that we all had space but not so big that you couldn't interact with others, plenty of light too.

There were some vendors through the weekend selling charts fabric and other stitching goodies as well as a freebie table and a destash table.  Karen and Anabelle did a fantastic job of arranging everything and looking after us all, they also hosted a smalls exchange and a raffle.  I think most of the attendees donated a raffle prize, the money raised, (£200), went to the prostate cancer charity in memory of Anabelle's step dad who sadly very recently lost his fight with prostate cancer.

I didn't take part in the smalls exchange but a good number did, there were some amazing and creative finishes.

I'd kitted up Hoot in a Boot to take with me and thoroughly enjoyed stitching again.  I had taken my  Mary Margaret stitching along in case I wanted a change but I was enjoying my new start so much that she never saw the light of day.

I avoided temptation and didn't add to my stash except for a new, larger grime guard and a chart from the de-stash table.  I think is a fairly old chart as I remember liking it years ago, and It still appeals to me.

Love the words

So that was my first weekend retreat and it won't be my last, I've put my name down for the November one :-) 

I didn't take my laptop so I'm behind on blog reading and commenting , I will catch up on your posts during the week.

-X

Oh dear, it seems I've been picked up on a spelling mistake 😂 I've corrected it now, I'll try better with the editing next time🤣

Just another manic Monday

 Not manic at all really, It's been a rather a nice day, I just couldn't come up with another title 😁

I'm still knitting away on my whitmore sweater, another couple nights and I should be done with the body.  I might order another small circular needle so that I can knit the sleeves at the same time, that way I can make the decreases at the same time.  The sleeves on the last one I made are just a little tighter than I would like, so I'm going to keep trying it on this time and make them where I think they need to be. 

I'll be going on a weekend stitching retreat soon and have been sorting out what I want to take.  I'm thinking a new start might kick start my stitching mojo.  I narrowed it down to two charts, Hoot in a Boot and North Pole.

I have the threads and fabric for both but I'm leaning towards taking Hoot in a Boot, It'll be a quicker stitch and with all that black stitching there will be less chance of me miss counting while chatting 😉 

Isn't that Santa great though? I'm going to have to start that one as soon as I can.

I will take my Mary Margaret stitching with me too In case I fancy a change.

My MRI results came back last week and I had an appointment with the GP.  I have bursitis in my hip also a small cyst and tendinopathy in my glute.  There is also mild tendinopathy in my right glute.  So I'ts what the first doctor I saw said it wasn't back when It all began!  It's getting on for six months now when this pain began and In all the visits not one suggested this is what I could be, I had to more or less insist on the MRI otherwise It wouldn't have been suggested.  At least now I know what It is and It can be fixed.  I've called several times to chase up my physio appointment through the GP but have been told it could be months, so went ahead and booked one myself and was seen this morning.  Before he had even read the results from the MRI he assessed me and got it spot on right away.  I've now got a set of exercises and finally feel like someone has listened to what I'm saying.  I'll go back again in three weeks so that he can see how I'm getting on.

Mark had his prostrate biopsy last Monday, he was told the results come back pretty quick but still not heard anything so fingers crossed that no news is good news.

I planned on a couple hours in the garden again this afternoon but it's gone very cold here again today, It's supposed to pick up tomorrow though.  Mark put sharp sand on the top grass on Saturday, we did the same last year and It definitely helped with the drainage, It's not as spongy as It was last Spring.  I need to get some compost and grass seed now so we can over-seed at the weekend.

There's always something to do isn't there🙄

Have a good week

-X-

Knitting and sowing

 I started a new project at the end of February, It's one I've knitted before, the Whitmore sweater by Ami Louden.  I'm using yarn that's been in my stash for a few years, Hayfield Sundance DK which I bought at one of the NEC shows with this project in mind.  It's a 50% acrylic cotton mix so should be perfect for the Spring/Early Summer.

I got the ribbing done on the neck the first night.

And this is how it's looking five days later.  It doesn't look very much for five evenings of knitting, but in my defence it is a lace pattern and each row is different so you are constantly checking what needs to be done, although with the exception of a couple of rounds that I found difficult to memorise once you have knitted a few repeats you get a feel for it. 

Forty nine rounds made up the first part of the yolk followed by second part of eight rounds.

Each section of lace pattern is separated by stitch markers, so if you do make a mistake it's easy to see where you've gone wrong.  I've put the stitches on a stitch cord to try it on, and so far so good.  Once I split for the sleeves I've try it on again.

That's all I'm working on at the moment, I'm enjoying it and as yet don't have the urge to cast on anything else.  I still haven't picked up any stitching.

I popped to the garden centre on Monday and bought my onion sets along with some peas.  I noticed that they were selling loose pea and bean seeds so instead of buying a packet of runner bean seeds for £3.49 I had the same amount for just over £1  There were a number of varieties to choose from so I asked for advice and was told that the Enorma variety was the best seller and the one they sold out of first, so that's the one I bought.

I bought the dahlia tubers from B&Q.  I've avoided dalilah's for years, the last lot I planted didn't grow very well and the slugs devoured them, but I loved this colour so we'll have to wait and see how they fair.

My tomatoes and the beans are all sowed, I should have enough tomatoes for the allotment and at home.

Margaret asked about our allotment.  It's not an allotment in the traditional sense as we don't have as much growing space as those would give, those are run by the local council and it's really hard to get one, even though a lot of them are overgrown and obviously not tended.  Ours is a smaller plot on a former potato field, they are managed by Roots which is more like a community scheme I suppose.  We do pay more than a council plot would cost but as I said, council plots come with disadvantages.  When you get your plot on a Roots site it is already laid out and fresh compost added, If you give your plot up you have to clear it or pay them to clear it for you, so you can start growing right away.  All garden tools, water, compost, manure and chippings are on site and available for all to use.  At the start of every season we get a growing pack with seeds and information on growing.  There in an online members site where you can ask questions, get information and there are also courses you can book onto.  They are no dig and try to be as eco friendly as possible, no plastic is allowed on site.  I liked that we could start growing right away last year and most of what we grew was from free plug plants we were given when we signed up.  We pay £20 per month, but as I share it with my daughter we pay a tenner each.  We're both ok with that and for what we get I don't think it's bad at all and the plot size we have is plenty big enough to grow what we need.  They have schemes all over the UK, If you click on the link it will take you to their site and you can read more about them.

The nice weather has continued all week and I'm still trying to make the most of it, I jet washed the drive yesterday so that's another outside chore crossed off my list.  I heard on the radio that today was the warmest day so far this year, it was 15°c here but not as sunny as previous days.  Looks like it's set to continue into next week after a couple day with some showers.

Have a lovely weekend.

-X-

Making hay while the sun shines

It was one of those

 March days when the 

sun shines hot and

 the wind blows cold:

 when it is Summer in the light, 

and Winter in the shade 

(Charles Dickens, Great Expectations)

After all the rain and damp weather of January and February we can be tricked into thinking that Spring and better weather are here, but we have to make the most of the nice days so It's been nice to get outside and start some of those jobs that need doing.

I spent all day Saturday at the allotment, I was down there by 10am intending to stay until lunchtime, but once I got started I thought I might as well carry on and get it all cleared, I left at 4.30pm.  I slept well that night!

At least It's all tidy and ready to grow again.

Today has been spent starting to tidy my own garden up.  The shed has been sorted the Summerhouse cleaned and I've made a start on clearing the rest of the leaves.  The grass is still a little wet at the top end of the garden but some sand and re-seeding again should sort that out in the next couple weeks.  I'm always surprised how quickly it drys up once the weather starts to get better.

I bought some pots out from the side of the shed that had some Spring bulbs in from last year, they will add a bit of colour in the next couple weeks.  I'm glad now that I didn't empty them last year, I'll do the same again this time when they are finished.

I've sowed my sweet-peas and my potato's are chitting, we are going to take the potato bags down to the allotment this year and grow them there, some of the sweet-peas will be taken down there too.

I cleaned out my greenhouse last week and potted on some geranium and petunia plug plants I got at  garden centre.

I'm considering buying a small raised bed for the top of the garden, my thoughts are that it would be good to grow tomatoes in, my greenhouse isn't really big enough to grow them in and I don't want pots in various places.  That's another thing on my list to do this week, sow the tomato seeds and also buy some onion sets for the allotment.

I'm not one to wish time away and get one season over and on to the next, but it has been lovely to see some brighter weather and think about what we can have a go at growing this year.

Enjoy the rest of the week

-X-

 

February Makes and other goings on

Another month gone by so quickly!  It's been a month of appointments for both Mark and me, but more about that later.  I still haven't picked up any stitching but I have been knitting.  Another pair of socks have been finished and also a cowl.`

These were knit using Rico sock yarn I bought when we visited Shrewsbury just before Christmas.  I'd definitely use it again, i'ts a nice plump yarn, and soft too.  I always take the time to make matching socks if I can, I did what I usually do to make them match and It worked on the leg, then the colour sequence changed. No matter, I still like them.

The cowl I've knitted I've seen quite a lot of others make, It's the Simon Cowl by Twin Set and Purl.

It uses a simple slip stitch to create the effect which was what drew me to it and I only used two 50g skeins of yarn, from stash.  The blue is Drops Nord and the cream is a sock yarn, can't remember the make as the ball band is missing.  The pattern comes with instructions for both the cowl and the shawl, and now I've got the hang of the pattern I can see me making the shawl too at some point.

As I mentioned there have been appointments.  Mark has been suffering with sciatica since the middle of January, he never visits the doctor but his leg was going numb so he made an appointment and was sent for an MRI and it turns out he has a slipped disc, possibly two.  He has an appointment to be examined further but that's not until May.  While he was at the doctors it was noticed that he had never had any blood tests so he was sent to get some done and had a phone call the day after to go to the surgery, turns out his vitamin D levels were really low and he was prescribed some very high strength capsules for six weeks.  The annoying thing about that is we always have Vitamin D in the house because I've taken it for years and have often said he should take them too, but he never does.  The tests also came back that his PSA test was high, a hospital appointment didn't give much more information just another MRI scan to determine if a biopsy is necessary.  He had the MRI last Saturday and a hospital appointment has come through for Monday.  Finger crossed things are ok.

I also had my MRI on my hip last Sunday, nothing come back through to the doctors regarding that yet.

So yes February has been a short month but lots going.

Before I go I wanted to share something strange that happened to my daughter Stevie. See what you think.

I've mentioned before that she teaches young children with behavioural issues and when she got the positive pregnancy test in November she hadn't yet told anyone in school when one of the little girls in her class came and placed her hand on Stevie's belly and said, "Oh Mrs Bourne you have a baby in your belly"  Obviously Stevie was a little surprised and replied, "a baby?"  "yes" said the girl, "she is so cute"

That was strange enough don't you think?  

But this week Stevie went back into work and the same little girl came to her.

 "Did you push your baby out?" said the girl,  "No darling" Stevie said "You lost your baby at home" said the little girl.  Stevie didn't respond and tried to distract her but then the girl said: "You want an alive baby".

I know children pick up on and sense things, but don't you think that's a little weird?  Have you ever come across anything similar?  I do believe that we can sense things if we tune in.  Mark always says I'm a witch, (ha ha).  Years ago, well about 37 years ago actually, Marks sister was standing by the door at his parents house and I just thought, she's pregnant. There was no indication she was pregnant, she is a larger woman and you would not know she was.  Later I asked Mark if she was, he didn't think so, but it turned out she was, she told no one until she was about seven months.  She would have been around three months at the time I mentioned it to Mark, so I guess I'm weird too😁

  On that note I'll say have a lovely weekend and enjoy the month of March.

-X-

This week

 Last Saturday myself and my middle daughter, Joanne, headed off to Manchester to see James Blunt.  It's the second time Joanne has see him live, both Joanne and Stevie came with me last year to see him in Birmingham, It was the fifth time of seeing him for me.  This was his Back To Bedlam tour, in celebration of the release of his first album of the same name.  He preformed all the songs from that album, including the one that is equally loved and hated by many, Your'e Beautiful, along with more recent songs.  He was absolutely brilliant, as he has been the previous times I've seen him.  His unique voice is easily recognisable and his voice is partly why I like him, that and the fact that all of his songs, if you listen to the lyrics, are a story.  We had a brilliant night.

We stayed in Manchester overnight, the hotel, The Maldron, was much nicer than I was expecting and only a few minutes walk from the AO Arena and the center of town.  We spent some time on the Sunday looking around the town and the Cathedral. The town has a great variety of shops, all the big name stores and quite a lot of designer shops, It was nice to look around somewhere different, although the inside of the Cathedral was a little disappointing I thought.  We stopped off on the way home to have a late Sunday lunch to round off the weekend.

This week has been half term and I had all four of the children on Tuesday, I needed to go to Ikea to pick some shelving up, not the best idea I've had, four children at half term in Ikea was a recipe for disaster, lol.  I wasn't going to stop there for lunch but they wanted Ikea meatballs and it kept them quiet and all in one place for a while at least.

Joanne had booked Bonnie and Jacob on a sow and grow activity at a garden centre at 3pm, luckily they let me add Arty and Oliver when I got there, they all decorated a terracotta pot and two of them sowed poached egg seeds and two tomato seeds.

Joanne had to go into the office again this morning so Bonnie and Jacob have been here, Jacob loves baking so we have made some brownies, Bonnie is happy to raid the re-cycling bin and fashion little houses and dolls beds from boxes and paper, she's a right little Womble 😂 

We've got Jacob overnight tomorrow, Bonnie and Joanne are at Beaver camp, he's never slept over before so that should be interesting.

Enjoy the weekend

-X-