Boxing Day

 After all the madness of the weeks and day's leading up to Christmas I was glad to have a quieter day today.  The sun was shinning lovely so I took off to a local park for a walk and to feed the ducks.  It was nice to get some fresh air and be in the sunshine after weeks of rainy damp weather.

A pair of herons were on the furthest bank of the pond, lovely to see them back again.

And a friendly robin sat long enough for me to get a nice photo, I usually take some bird food with but I'd forgotten, I feel sure he would have come closer if I'd had some.

I had an hour in the garden, just a general tidy up, there are still lots of leaves in the boarders but I'm not too worried about those, they will be harbouring some tasty bugs for the birds. 

Christmas Day is always busy and yesterday was no different We go to see the children and grandchildren and take the presents Santa has left at our house, seeing the kids opening their presents does make it all worth while, I love seeing how excited they get.

We went out for our Christmas dinner this year, Stevie and Darren came with us, the meal was ok, it's never quite the same as your own roast dinner is it? but it saved cooking and I just wasn't up to having all the mess with cooking this year so I enjoyed it.  We had a 1.30 sitting and it was nice to come back and just chill out for the rest of the afternoon.

Tomorrow is my birthday, not sure if we are doing anything yet, if the weather is nice again it would be good to get out for a bit, we'll see.

Hope you all had a lovely Christmas day and are now enjoying some relaxation time.

-X-

December book clubs

 My last two book club meetings of the year fell in the same week this month.  Pudding and book club was Wednesday evening and the library book club on Thursday afternoon.

The book with the most votes last time at P&BC was A Bird In Winter by Louise Doughty.  She was also the author of Apple Tree Yard which I read a few years ago and enjoyed, so I had high hopes for this one.

The story is about Heather, (aka bird), who works for the secret service, supposedly MI5.  While in a meeting one day her boss says something that makes her feel as though she is in danger so she gets up and leaves the room and makes her way out of the building and collects the bag she has packed ready to leave should the need arise.  We then follow her journey out of London and up through Scotland where she has maid arrangements to travel farther afield.  The information on why she went on the run is drip fed in stages and I found the time line very hard to pin down because of the chopping and changing between past and present within the chapters.  It's described as a thriller and although It started off well enough it just didn't really develop, if anything there were more questions than answers at the end.

It did however make for a very good discussion, most people chipped in with their interpretation of the ending, but on the whole we agreed that we would have liked more character development and a clearer timeline.

Jen, who took over running our B&P club a few months ago is a great host, at our October meeting she made some Boo baskets as raffle prizes, this time she made Christmas baskets for the raffle.  She also wrapped a book for everyone and handmade crackers.  There are 45 of us now in that group so she put in a lot of hard work for our last meeting of the year.

My wrapped book

Book Club Christmas raffle prizes

  Shall I tell you how just lucky I am?   

Well, there was three of us sat at a table last month, myself and two new ladies, one of them, Elaine,(such a lovely person and so funny), sat opposite me won one of the book prizes.  

On Wednesday I sat with those same two ladies plus another new member.  

Yet again I missed out, the other lady who joined last month won one of the Christmas baskets!

That's just about my luck😒

The next day was the library book club.  There's a very different vibe to this meeting, all the ladies are older and we very often go off on a tangent, which is ok up to a point but sometimes it can get way off track (and one of them gets very uppity when that happens, lol).  There is also one that dominates the discussion, which can be a bit overbearing sometimes but on the whole it's alright.

Our requested book didn't come through last time so we got this one off the main reading list.

Now if they had given this book out this Thursday I might have given it a go but we only had three weeks to read it and it was just over 800 pages long!   Wasn't going to happen, not with everything else to do at this time of year.   

I did say at the time that there was no way I was even going to attempt, but it would make a nice doorstop.  

As it happened there was only myself and Wendy on Thursday, all the others had messaged to say they weren't going to make it for one reason or another, and hadn't read the book anyway.  But fair play to Wendy she had managed to almost get to the end!

Perhaps is was best that there was only two of us this time it would have been upsetting if everyone had turned up because one of our members, Sue, passed away suddenly just a few days after our November meeting.  

It was such a shock to everyone because as far as we know she hadn't been ill.  She had been a member of that reading group since it started, so 15 years or more perhaps?  I've only known her for perhaps four years but she was always friendly, she will be missed by everyone.

The first meeting in January will be strange without her.

-X-

The madness begins

 I popped to Home Bargains yesterday for a few toiletries and cleaning supplies and it was absolutely rammed, not one trolly left.  Luckily I didn't need that much and managed with a basket, I was glad to get out of there and back home, I don't know if it's an age thing but I find all this last minute panic buying and excess food shopping so ridiculous.  I feel overwhelmed just seeing the amount of food in some peoples trollies

I'm still not feeling the Christmas spirit, (did you guess, lol).  

I'm just waiting for a couple of presents to arrive by post and then I can start the wrapping next week, the spare room looks like Santa's grotto and the house feels like its groaning under the weight of all the extra things, does anyone else get that overwhelming feeling that the house is too full this time of year?  or is that just me?

My tree finally got decorations but I haven't unpacked any of my stitched ornaments this year, now I'm thinking It's not worth bothering this late in the month, everything will be taken down on New Years Eve anyway so I will just be making more work for myself.   

 Sorry, I don't know why I'm being such a misery guts about Christmas this year 🙄

Dee noticed my Christmas cactus last time, I actually have two plants.  This is the largest and is about ten years old, not as many flowers as last year but it's still a good show.

This is a baby of the one above, I think I knocked a stem off the big plant one time, they sprout roots so easily if popped into some water.  I think there is a flower on almost every stem this time, so pretty.

We are still enjoying our advent jigsaw, we are all up to date now and half way there already! We are going to take it in turns and do a day each now until Christmas Eve, It's been something different, a bit of calm and quiet in a busy time.  I'll post a photo of it once it's completed.

-X-

Jigging along

Arty stayed over on Friday and stayed until tea time on Saturday, Jenny James and Oliver went to a football match, they do go quite regularly and Arty is not really into football so stays here when they do.

The weather was damp and horrible so we only went into town for a mooch round, he found a meccano set in a charity shop for £2, it was brand new and unopened, bargain, he came home happy with his find and Mark helped him put it together before he went home.  

I'd been looking at Christmas jigsaw puzzles but didn't know if we'd complete it, all those pieces can make me feel a bit overwhelmed, but then I spied an advent calendar jigsaw in the same charity shop for £3, couldn't pass that up could I?

Inside the box was 24 little boxes 😊

I don't think It had ever been completed, or if it had they were very gentle with it.

My brain can cope with the small amount of pieces in these boxes (about 41 -ish) and you feel as though you have accomplished something.

We are playing catch-up but have done three days worth so far and Mark is working locally now until Christmas so I'm sure we will catch up in a couple more days. 

Oh and the football, Villa won so everyone had a good day 😉

-X-

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas...

Well sort of.  

The tree is up but not decorated, all the Christmas decoration boxes have been stacked in the conservatory since Saturday waiting for me to find my enthusiasm to start, but I can't shake the 'can't be bothered' attitude.  But I know already that most things will stay in the boxes this year, as I get older as well as getting grumpier (ha ha), I'm also finding I want less 'stuff' around me. 

Anyway, I haven't been around for a few weeks and I've probably put most of you off reading the rest by moaning 🤣 

Yesterday was my middle daughter, Joanne's birthday, she turned 38.   The girls have money for birthday's, they are all grown and can go and treat themselves or put the money towards something.  She has Wednesday's off work so we went into town, lunch and cake was on me and she also picked out a couple things she wanted for Christmas, we also got some bits for the kids stockings.

I also made her a cushion, which wasn't for her birthday really but as It's Christmas/Winter, it was the right time to give it to her.  She bought a cushion front years ago and never got round to making it, when she moved and was having a clear out she gave it to me saying that she would probably never get round to It.  That was two years ago and I've just got round to it 🤭

I had to buy the piping but that's all, the backing fabric was also in with what she gave me, I think it was once a shirt of hers, and the inner pillow I already had.

I made a simple envelope back and I think the fabric is perfect for it.

I've never put piping on a pillow before, it's not perfect but the perfectionist in me thought It was pretty good for a first attempt.  She liked it, and I'm glad a couple bits of fabric are gone out of my stash, so win win.

I leave you with a picture of my un-decorated tree, It looks ok as it is to be fair, but I'll get round to making it all pretty in the next few days, when I can locate my enthusiasm.

-X-